Phil, I read your plea. I gather you are a Sabbath keeping bible believer. There is a website I just recently found that may be helpful to you: http://www.fossilizedcustoms.com/contact.html Maybe it is helpful. Also I would like to know which decade you were born: the 1950's, 1960's, 1970's, 1980's for to pray and seek along for you? Also you may want to write me what you believe on core bible subjects. Here in this forum or else to my email address. I believe believers should seek like-minded believers where it concerns a marriage relationship; and yes within the Sabbath keeping believers there are lots of differing viewpoints on matters of God's Law (e.g. Passover held on early 14 Nisan or on early 15 Nisan). It is far better get hooked up with a like-minded person okay. I read you later. Best Regards. Eugenie.